January 2013
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So it is...
One morning when I was six, I woke up and realized that I was small, and big; that I was an intellectual and a poet. I realized that I was irreverent and dogmatic; that I was plain and fancy and that one day I would cease to be. But the thing that I remember most about that day, is the moment when it dawned on me that I live… the magnitude of that reality has haunted and inspired me every day of...
November 2012
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Ruminating, Ranting, Raving...
So, it’s been a crazy week. I was stressed WORSE than I have been in years….probably the worst I’ve felt since the week of my mother’s funeral. I had a job interview, but I also had to read to my daughter’s 1st grade class, cook corn for the Thanksgiving feast celebration, drop the yoga mats and lunch off to the boys’ pre-school, and find something to wear for the 2nd round of interviews I had...
October 2012
3 posts
Tell me more...
I wish people really knew how amazing they are: I mean, think about it, our heart starts beating in the womb, weak and faint and barely audible…..and then it beats without fail, every second, of every minute of every day of our lives until we are called Home; and we never say thank you, we almost never think about it, we seldom stop and close our eyes, and place our hand over our heart to...
True and false...
I am an existentialist and a hedonist. I live my life in search of meaning and beauty. Of course, I don’t belong to any “club” because not all existentialists find meaning in the sufferings of MY life; and not all hedonists adore monochromatic taupe landscapes…..
Still, I dare say that we are more the same than not. In fact, I once infuriated someone to rage by asking...
Tell me again...
Did you say that this past week-end a boy in our town beat a girl in our town to death because he LOVED her?
July 2012
5 posts
Yup, almost there...
For those of you who don’t already KNOW this….the closer you get to your goal/dream, the harder it becomes…..let that be an indication to you that you’re almost there. This is not a “feel good” post. This is a pearl of personal wisdom from me to you because that’s where I’m at…..So remember, if it burns like the fires of Hell to keep holding...
There can be no keener revelation of a society’s soul than the way in...
Sometimes when I am gone from myself for a while, I hear a whisper from within...
Birth and death are only significant when you consider them bookends to the...
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June 2012
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I honestly don’t think I’d have trouble sleeping EVER, if I slept...
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We are perfect...
Achieving perfection is not the same as being perfect.
This is because achieving perfection is a myth designed to consume you and waste your life.
On the other hand…..being perfect is a reality. It happens every second of your life and because you’re a perfect human, it means you get a lot of shit wrong!
-Nivia Cavic
Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who matter don’t mind,...
There are so many things I just don’t understand….
I pray for rain every day……every single day.
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My daughter has asked me to let you know that there is a very fine line between...
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To be “unhappy” means that one has accepted and resigned; to be...
It is our understanding, not our lack of it, that delivers us to our next...
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EVERYBODY’s God is different…
I keep having this recurring thought….I keep thinking that all of my...
Label me?…I dare you, you’ll run out long before it’s...
If I had a choice between having someone hold the door open for me while I had...
Taking 2 minutes out of the ones that you’ve been assigned, to share yourself...
I am not truly enlightened. I am sure of this because I seldom feel...
sometimes i forget i’m following people in really different timezones so i see posts and i’m like wHY ARE YOU GOING TO THE ZOO AT FOUR IN THE MORNING
Of course, my question is always…..what’s wrong with going to the zoo at 4 in the morning…..?
-Nivia Cavic
Doesn’t it simply take your breath away to know that a gajillion-million...
If it matters to you, then that’s enough.
I have been MOST afraid of what I would become, not what I would FAIL to become....
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Most people find out little by little how powerful they are, and frankly,...
Help me forget…
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Almost everyone has an addiction that involves food..they are either obsessed...
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Write hard and clear about what hurts.
– Ernest Hemingway (via f0xfur)
Effective immediately, I am going to stop being so damned hard on...
petit-beija-flor asked: Hello! My name is Kodi. I really like the way you word things and the things you say. :3 I'm big into quotes, and your quotes speak to me. I guess I just wanted to let you know :]
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Every country is great….for in every country there is GREAT love of...
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Some days I miss my mother so much.
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A single mom working two jobs who still makes time to take her kid to soccer...
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Whenever someone asks me “How are things?”, I always respond exactly...
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I am an eternal optimist, not because I believe that everything is going to be...
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For most of us, life is in some ways, a fight!
-Anonymous
I’ve always been a writer, I just didn’t always write.
-Nivia Cavic